Humanology 101 (Lesson 1)

"That Thing They Do"

As humans, their main aim is survival. In such a vast world, one way to maintain a healthy existence is through human bonding. They meet at countless times in life, in random places at the most unexpected of circumstances. They meet, and on first encounter something within them begins forming an impression of the other. Some bonds strengthen with time, while some are never solid to begin with. And some can captivate both sides- either remaining a firm tie forever, or surprising both ends by snapping at a normally harmless jerk.

These "bonds" that they form (to which is often referred to as "relationships" or "friendships", depending on those involved), they begin as mutual feelings of acceptance and comfort. As this tie strengthens, the significance of a reciprocal effort plays a key role in its firm persistence. In some instances, one side decides to let go, putting it all to an end, leaving it all behind. This may be it due to pure negligence, an indifference to the other human involved, or as surrender to the constant effort of keeping the bond strong and stable. Sometimes this occurs as a result of a major conflict, or as an unfortunate misunderstanding. Other times these bonds are severed as a defense mechanism- one side letting it go before it is the one left behind.

Human beings, despite their wide ability to think and function intellectually, often fail to choose those with whom they interact with wisely. Too often they ignore that instinct, the "inner" knowledgeable voice within, which not only senses whether a certain relation would be beneficial, but also does everything within its grasp to make its keeper understand this and act accordingly. This failure of self-comprehension often leads to the termination of many bonds, many "relationships", many "friendships". If only they would listen more carefully, their world would be a more pleasant place. However, it is important to keep in mind that even in those bonds that have ended on an emotional and literal scale, its memory remains within the hearts of those involved. It's something they can never simply choose to erase completely.

So if there is one aspect that the persistence of the human race depends on yet may never learn to appreciate fully, let it be the act of bonding through interaction and communication. It's "that thing they do" after all which makes them what they are.

Savvy Doc.